Faith & Reason Nexus

1. You Must Not Bow Down to Bitterness

• Ephesians 4:31
• James 3:14
• Proverbs 14:10
• Ecclesiastes 7:24

When treated unfairly, it is easy to harbor bitterness, but we are called to avoid this. Bitterness can poison our hearts and relationships. Instead, we must choose to forgive, letting go of grudges.

2. What You Do Is More Important Than How You Feel

• Ephesians 4:26

Our actions should not be dictated by our emotions. Though feelings of anger or frustration may arise, it is crucial to respond in a Christlike manner, keeping our actions aligned with righteousness, regardless of how we feel inside.

3. That You Are Still the Larger Debtor

• Matthew 18:21-35

When we are treated unfairly, it is important to remember that we are forgiven much more by Christ than we could ever owe others. Reflecting on God’s grace to us helps us find the strength to forgive those who wrong us.

4. You Were Called to Follow Christ’s Example

• 1 Peter 2:21

Christ suffered unjustly but responded with love and forgiveness. We are called to follow His example, understanding that unfair treatment can be an opportunity to grow in grace and reflect Christ’s love to others.

In times of being treated unfairly, these truths remind us to act with integrity, compassion, and forgiveness, just as Christ did.