“Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself for her.”
Ephesians 5:25
How Should Husbands Love Their Wives?
- With a Selfless and Unselfish Love
- Christ’s love for the church was not about self-gain but about giving His all for her. Husbands are called to love their wives with the same selflessness, prioritizing their needs and well-being above their own.
- With a Giving and Sacrificial Love
- True love requires sacrifice. Just as Christ gave Himself up for the church, husbands are called to love in a way that is willing to lay down personal desires and comforts for the good of their wives.
- With a Love of the Will as Well as of the Heart
- Love is not only an emotion but also a deliberate choice. Husbands must choose to love their wives daily, regardless of circumstances or feelings.
- With a Love of Commitment as Well as of Affection
- This love goes beyond romantic gestures or temporary emotions. It is a lifelong commitment rooted in faithfulness and a deep affection that mirrors Christ’s unwavering devotion to His church.
Reflection
A husband’s love is to reflect Christ’s love—unconditional, enduring, and sacrificial. This calling is a high standard but one empowered by God’s grace. Are you loving your wife in a way that honors this command?
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